When coming to the decision of packing/checking our bag(s), Adam and I each have our own checked bag – most of the time this is not negotiable, especially when flying with a little one in tow. BUT, Adam was somehow (with smoke & mirrors – or was that beer & wings?) able to convince Rachel that we could cram everything the three of us needed for our trip into ONE checked bag. Yes, only one. It is just a long weekend trip (4 days total), he said. There’s no way we’ll need 2 checked bags, he said.
This meant that if we
went over that coveted baggage weight of 50 lbs. we would incur a ridiculous
upcharge and be scorned with the Scarlet Letter – uh, I mean the
screaming neon orange ‘Heavy Bag’ tag. Luckily leaving RDU our ticket counter
agent was a God-send and didn’t even bat an eyelash at the measly 2 pounds that
we were over – Score!
Different story
leaving ROC, this ticket agent (with an already obvious chip on his shoulder –
because we didn’t use the electronic kiosk to pay via credit card!) had actually
recommend that we step over to the side to see if we could remove the 2 pounds
that we were over…seriously, dude?! Do you not see the infant on Rachel’s hip
or the weary, sleep-deprived look in our eyes? That was not going to happen,
especially on an airport floor – whether we had Daphne with us or not. We had
to fork over the ‘Heavy Bag’ fee (for 2 pounds!). Not cool. Oh, did we mention
that the heavy bag fee on Delta is $90 bucks!? Aaaaaand that is in addition to
the $25 checked bag fee that we were already paying. Luckily before even
arriving to the airport it had been decided that if we were over the baggage
weight (thanks in part to all of the gifts that Daphne received), that we were
going to pay regardless.
Security, on the other
hand, was awesome and easy on both ends of our trip. We breezed right though. Rachel
didn’t even have time to break a sweat. Kids (12 & under) keep their shoes
on and Rachel carried Daphne through the ‘old’ style metal detector door frame.
It also helped that Daphne was awake, alert, smiling and was able to wave and
say HI at the TSA folks…they got a kick out of her.
If we remember
correctly, our carry-on bags pre-toddler probably included cool stuff like the
latest People Mag, a bag of Skittles, and an iPod. Throw all that in the river.
Our carry-ons now included the following:
TOYS: So. Many. Toys. – of course
they had to make little or no noise while on the plane; and different toys for
wandering around the airports. We didn’t even break them out while on the
airplane – didn’t need them.
SNACKS: snacks that Daphne normally
eats but no guarantee as to which ones she will actually like on any given day.
Some of the items we had: fig newtons, nilla wafers, yogurt melts, goldfish
crackers, Baby Mum-mums, Cheerios, Plum Organic snack pouches, just to name a
few. Yes, we were packing a mini-mart.
DIAPER STUFF: I think that between
the carry-on bags there were 18 diapers and 300 wipes – we packed enough to
cover us in case the flight was late or got diverted (thanks to the sequestration)
or we got stuck somewhere overnight.
Hey, it happens. We held our breath for poop the whole way. Thankfully she
didn’t do it. We’ve had to use the changing tables in the airplane bathrooms before
– when she was teeny-tiny, so we knew our way around that. No big deal.
SLEEP STUFF: when you negotiate for
sleep, make it irresistible. We packed extra comfy pants, extra shirt/onesie,
and of course Piglet had to make the trip. There was little negotiating that
went on, Daphne fell asleep shortly after take-off and / or once we reached our
cruising altitude.
All-in-all it was a
great trip! Daphne was able to spend time with Grandma, Grandpa, Uncle Andrew,
Aunt Cori and her cousins Sofia & Lia. As well as some other family members
and close friends that haven’t met Daphne in person yet – we know, we know…took
us long enough!
So glad we were able
to be there in person as we celebrated Sofia’s 1st Communion – which
is a huge milestone in our faith and in her life. The weather was actually
cooperating and turned out to be a gorgeous day!
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| Daphne fast asleep on our flight to Rochester |
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| Daphne on the 'sofa' in the Rochester Airport |
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| Cousins! (Sofia, Lia and Daphne -- with Piglet, of course) |
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| All dressed up! |
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| Love this sweet face! |





We are so glad you were able to make the trip! It was wonderful seeing you all. It meant so much to have you there. We are looking forward to visiting with you again at the end of June when we can relax, cook-out, let the kiddies play, chat and have a beer!
ReplyDeleteLove to you all from all of us!
Cori, Andy, Sofia & Lia
Wonderful visit with the 3 of you. Daphne is such a joy.
ReplyDeleteCan't wait for your next visit at the end of June.
As Cori said, then we can all relax, maybe swim (let's hope
the weather cooperates), and drink some beer and wine.
Love, Mom and Dad
So glad she was a good traveler and that you all had a great visit. Thanks for sharing! The photos are wonderful!
ReplyDeleteWe're looking forward to seeing you all in July. :)
Love & Hugs!
Mom & Nana